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| My Husband Blames Me For His Cheating - Is It My Fault? |
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| Written by T Dub Jackson |
| Thursday, 29 July 2010 07:16 |
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Women everyone take the blame completely upon themselves when their husbands cheat. Not all women do but enough that it is a problem that needs to be addressed. Now is not the time to be riddled with self-doubt and questions like "am I a bad person that drove him to cheat?"
Women everyone take the blame completely upon themselves when their husbands cheat. Not all women do but enough that it is a problem that needs to be addressed. Now is not the time to be riddled with self-doubt and questions like "am I a bad person that drove him to cheat?" Take note that the mind has the power to transform any individual whatever s/he thinks about himself. If you think you are bad, then you are. If you think you are good, then great. Only you have the power to change mountains with what you believe in. If you think it was your fault why your husband cheated on you, then it's high time for you to tighten the screws in your head. You Just don't Know You have the Best Chances are that you are married to a very good man. He probably works hard to bring home the bacon. He believes in being good and doing right but, like all of us, he is still human and may, on occasion, do things he isn't very proud of. The odds are good that cheating is one of those things. He can still be a good man, a great man even, and do something bad like cheating. You are Definitely Not to Blame No one can ever justify the act of cheating. Whether or not you contributed to the cheating issue, it is simply no way right for a husband to define his cheating as something that he has no control of or because you pushed him into it. His decision to cheat and blaming you for it is solely a matter of justifying his behavior. Remember that cheaters always make excuses whenever they can. Even if they are caught in the act, they are so good at pointing fingers. You need to be aware of this type of cheating excuse. Beware lest you fall prey to allowing yourself to be defined his cheating. What cheating flaunts in the relationship is the fact that there are things that need to addressed or discussed before the marriage has to go back to its normal state. Why Men Cheat Regardless of his weird actions towards you like the blaming and all that stuff, the real story is that he cheated on you. What reasons? Here are some that you could use as your checklist. Stress at home Wife is too demanding compared to the other woman. No demands by the other woman The relationship is a mess. Escapism Too many demands at home Lack of affection, or respect. Nagging Flattery by the other woman As you can see, none of these reasons have anything to do with their wives being bad women or even with their wives not being attractive enough. Even if your marriage has ended over cheating it's not too late to get your ex back and make your marriage better than ever before. What you really need to make that happen is a proper blueprint. These free videos: http://www.getyourexbacknow.com/just_break_up3.html will explain the very first step you need to make to win him back. It's worked for thousands of couples just like you. See what it can do for your marriage today! |