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| How To Get Girls Just Like A Magnet |
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| Written by Bobby Slayer |
| Tuesday, 24 January 2012 09:53 |
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Having a tough time attracting the woman that you want into your life? Whilst it can seem difficult here are some tips that can help you in your quest.
Having a tough time attracting the woman that you want into your life? Whilst it can seem difficult here are some tips that can help you in your quest. Don't be a dork, lol. What do I mean by that? Well don't be one of those pussy boys who lets attractive girls walk all over them. There are some guys that will persistently tell their dream girl how much they love them and all other manner of soppy things, whilst it might seem a good thing to do, it is actually in reality making you look very weak. Suprisingly it can actually turn girls off and make them think less of you, there is definitely something to be said for the 'treat em mean, keep em keen' mentality, to a certain degree anyway. The next tip is always to listen well when a girl is talking to you, they love to talk, and often will talk endlessly about themselves, this is cool and don't interrupt them, let them talk to their hearts content and they will naturally begin to like you. Give her your full attention as well, girls don't want to see you looking out into space or at other girls if they are talking to you, focus only on her and you will do well. Getting a girl to like you can easily be done by using some NLP techniques in rapport building. We can do a lot by remembering that all humans are more likely to feel an affiliation with other humans that are similar to them, it's very much an unconscious thing that takes place. Here's a quick tip, when in conversation (especially when she is talking) mirror her, but do it subtlety. Maybe she is sitting with legs crossed, you could do the same, or if she has arms folded you could slowly move over time to mimic her position. Perhaps if she is excited and talking in such a way you can too, or the other end of the spectrum, if she's talking slow and soft you can mimic this. You can get better with this the more you do it, but start off slow as you don't want her to pick up consciously that you are copying her, or she may feel uneasy and the conversation may not go well. Don't stay in the 'friends' category too long. This is easy to do and will kill your chances maybe permanently, once she sees you as a friend for more than a certain period of time, she may never see you in a 'romantic' capacity again. Use body language, words and actions to make her realise that you actually 'fancy' her and not just like her as a friend. Don't make the mistake though of trying to seduce her into bed, this probably won't work and will leave you out in the cold forever. The best way to get a girl into bed, is to get her to invite you. Should you want to know more techniques for having the gal you desire stop by http://howtomakeagirlfallinlovewithyou.net/. |